currently reading...

I am now starting Wicked by Gregory Maguire. I can't wait...loving the whole play on The Wizard of Oz (oh and the book is green, which I just think is cool!).

boy update...

So I have finally decided to take my lovely friends advice and never go back or entertain thoughts of ex's....I had a momentary lapse this week with G, especially after the things he said Sunday...but there is a reason why ex's are ex's!
I am starting to talk to a new boy, who is not my type-but honestly do I even know what my type is anymore!-but very sweet, sincere, funny and clearly adores me. I am not putting much into it at this point but just seeing what happens....but he is surprising me and it's lovely! :)

“When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.”

Zoey ♥

St. Patty's day....

Okay seriously did that just happen, St. Patty's day ran into a whole lot of HS people, saw the guy I randomly kissed at NYE, saw D, my ex that I'm still not over, my ex, G called and told me he misses me and had random boys hit on me....now I'm drunk and soooooo confused!!!

Epiphany.

I have had an epiphany, tired of being sad and over-analyzing everything so I am over it! I am focusing on myself and backing off of people for awhile..this is up there with giving up boys in hardness for me. I'm a social person, who craves people, talking, love but I'm feeling consumed, broken by people and I just need a break. I need friends that really want to be in my life, that pursue talking/hanging out with me, that realize I need them right now....so we'll see I guess...

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"Life is fragile. We are all vulnerable and we will all, at some point in our lives, fall. We must carry this in our hearts, that what have is special, that it can be taken from us and when it its taken from us we will be tested, tested to our very souls. It is these times, this pain, that allows us to look inside ourselves."

contemplating....

I am feeling a huge mix of emotions lately...sad and distance from friends-in fact I have decided to just back off from people completely for a little while..I feel like I'm always the pursuer and I'm tired of it; contemplating the next step in my life; and the endless questions about boys, especially now with my ex, G. I can't deny what we have, the chemistry and connection. He knows me better then anyone, wholly and completely..and the the things he said Sunday night...I know I am a complete disaster with relationships, I'm high maintenance, over-emotional, over-analyzer, a flight risk, who pushes people away, and who gets what she thinks she wants but then doesn't want it anymore...so for a person to tell me you drive me crazy but I don't want you to change, you are my Vanessa...words can't describe how that felt to hear. Maybe there is someone out there who can handle everything that is me and won't ask me to change or leave me because I can't! But I don't know how I feel about G-if I honestly can see us back together, my future with him or honestly if that's even an option..what if I had the right guy there the whole time and I let him go and now I've lost him for good? Or what if space was all we needed to get our shit together?